Discussing finances with aging parents is never easy. As a result, many families simply delay these conversations or avoid them altogether. This can lead to unexpected financial surprises, misunderstandings, and even conflicts down the road.
By talking openly about money, you ensure both their future and yours are secure, prevent potential disputes, and help in planning for long-term care. Your goal in having this conversation is not just about understanding their financial situation but also about ensuring financial stability and facilitating smooth estate planning.
Parents who have accumulated wealth over the years may be resistant to the idea that they need help managing their money. It’s important to be mindful of your language and positioning. It’s not, “I need to know how much money you have.” Nor is it, “You shouldn’t do this by yourself.” There are more delicate ways to broach the subject, and we’ve outlined a few possible scenarios below: